I do go by my own wording's put together about life: “We need to achieve something in our life where we are born rather living the life by its own way it leads to”.
Life even though it sounds low it values high, each one born in this earth would live in this world to achieve something or the other which may be either good or bad ..It’s left to that person he / she chooses to achieve something. We all should dream high to aim high, words by Dr.Kalam for the youth’s in this century.
Life wil teach us the way to aim high as and when we agree that each and every moment of our life is precious and will teach us some value of the life which we live everyday every sec. We have our own value before looking for other’s values or following it in our daily life.
I can share few instances of mine with you; I am from a normal middle class family from a very small village, good education offered by my parents from a school where people of that period say one of the best schools in our town. This decision was done by my father to educate us in a best school since he didn’t have such an opportunity of learning. since he was bought up by himself without his parents from his small age where no one to help him out in continuing his studies bcoz their parents where no more…. This was there in his heart all the way down his life to educate his children in a best way where no one had done it in our village. My father learnt lots of lessons about life when he was just 12. I couldn’t imagine even now how he would have struggled hard to come up in his life….
My grandma who has done a great sacrifice giving her daughter ( i.e my mother ) to my father in those days even though he was earning so less to run a family… my parents with all their efforts put together bought us i.e my elder brother and younger sister and me without knowing what is happening in our family financially… what all we know by that time was our parents love, good education , food, clothing and shelter which we leads all three of us to aim high in our studies which ultimately makes our parents dream true slowly day by day….
The day comes when my brother passed out his 12 th with good scores and seated in good college, here comes the point wherein my brother know actual financial situation running over in our family, followed by completing my 10th stepped into a government school to continue my higher studies leaving my brother in college wherein I came to know that my father was hurt within his heart as he himself had spoiled my studies by shifting the school. From there I struggled hard to achieve good results in my higher sec in order to make my father happy ,that he didn’t do anything wrong , yes I did it from my end but it took 2 yrs for me to do that. That was the period where my father build our own small house which was is dream for long years and at last we are successful stepping into our new home.
Even though my father struggled hard there were no problem for my mother for running the family bcoz he provided her all latest facilities since 1990’s like TV, fridge, phone, gas and many more things provided to her as she was the first person in our village to use that. I don’t have seen any other person in my life till today as my mother, she stands special for all three of us for her love , affection & care shown towards us and above all for her calmness and smiling face . I have never seen her scolding anyone by harsh words in this 24 years of my life time with her… Those days she used to suffer lot for fetching water for our economical use, Even though there were maids for helping her to do that. We used to take water for some days, which made my father to drill ground for getting bore water. After few times of continuous effort we succeeded in getting water in our own house. There are many more instances to state but let me stop here…
Ultimate aim of our three is to make our parents dream to come true and we all were working hard for achieve it… in the meanwhile my sister completed her education both 10th and 12th with good marks where no one in our village has crossed that till today even later there won’t be anyone in future also is my father’s thought (bcoz all children are precious to their parents ).
My parents short term goal becomes true over here and they started working about our future goals by providing us our 2nd level education as my brother stepped into B.tech where my father needs to push me into b.tech and later skipped that and stepped into B.sc and my sister who couldn’t step into BITS stepped on to her B.tech in one of the famous institute if not BITS. We left one of our goal failed at that point in time that no one form us would step in to BITS.
Among us my sister was so lucky wherein my brother settled down in a good IT firm of India as she completed her studies and her life was too smooth… me after completing my B.sc looking for my higher studies and stepped into a college for my M.CA. Overall my aim was to become a teacher somehow washed away and tried concentrating on my studies.
Then there was an opportunity from the firm where my brother was working, that I can work for that company and happiest part of that job is that I would be eligible for doing a degree from BITS. I accepted that job only bcoz of making my father’s dream true even though there is hard bond of 4 years and I can work along with my brother.
Best part of all is been done by our brother who struggled every day in his life and today he is in a good position where everyone around him is willing to follow him choosing his path. I personally a well wisher and die-heart follower of my brother who is always my role model & who leads my life with all his hard work and good thoughts and even service provided by him towards society. I always feel proud of my brother and sister.
My father and my mother wil always used to say that me and my sister are blessed by god for getting a brother like him and we both wil strongly agree upon that because there is no controversy on that…even they use to say that they are blessed to get children like us. But the fact is we were lucky enough in this world to be blessed them as our parents.. I wish its to be the same for the following generations to come…
At last today is the day that my father’s long term goal is also been satisfied as my sister too has joined a good organization and started working…. We really proud of ourselves that all 3 worked hard and harder in our life for making my parents dreams true…
