padithathil rasithathu

சிநேகிதிகளின் கணவர்களுடனான
சிநேகங்களில்
எப்போதும் உருவாகிவிடுகிறது
ஒரு சதுரங்கக் கட்டம்
ஒரு கலைக்கமுடியாத பாவனையின்
மர்ம நிழல்
ஒரு சர்க்கஸ் கோமாளியின்
அபாயகரமான சாகசங்கள்
ஒரு அபத்த வெளியில்
விரிக்கப்பட்ட வலை

சிநேகிதிகளின் கணவர்களுடனான
சிநேகங்களில்
என் சிநேதிகளின் கண்களை
முற்றாகத் தவிர்த்துவிடுகிறேன்
அவளது ஆடையின் வண்ணங்களை
அவளது தேனீரின் ரகசியப் பிரியங்களை
மறுதலித்துவிடுகிறேன்
அவளைப் பற்றிய ஒரு நினைவை
வேறொரு சம்பவத்தோடு இணைத்துவிடுகிறேன்
அவளது கணவனைப்போலவே
அவளது இருப்பை
ஒரு விளையாட்டுப் பொருளாக்குகிறேன்

சிநேகிதிகளின் கணவர்களுடனான
சிநேகிதங்களில்
நாம் அனுமதிக்கப்படுவது
ஒரு கருணை

அது நம்மிடம் காட்டப்படும்
ஒரு பெருந்தன்மை..

சில சமயம் நம் சிநேகிதிகளுக்கு
காட்டப்படும் பெருந்தன்மை..

நாம் சந்தேதிக்கப்படவில்லை
என நம்மை நம்ப வைக்கும்
ஒரு தந்திரமான விளையாட்டு..

சிநேகிதிகளின் கணவர்களுடனான
சிநேகங்களில்
என் சிநேகிதி எப்போதும்
பிசாசுகளின் புதிர்மொழியொன்றைப்
பேசுகிறாள்..

உரையாடல்களின்
அபாயகரமான திருப்பங்களை
பதற்றத்துடன் லாவகமாகக் கடந்து செல்கிறாள்..

எதைப் பற்றிய பேச்சிலும்
கணவரைப் பற்றிய
ஒரு பின்குறிப்பை இணைத்துவிடுகிறாள்..

ஒவ்வொரு சந்திப்பின் முடிவில்
மிகவும் ஆயாசமடைந்து
கணவர்கள் மட்டுமே நண்பர்களாக இருப்பது
நல்லது என்று யோசிக்கத் தொடங்குகிறாள்

சிநேகிதிகளின் கணவர்களுடனான
சிநேகங்களின் இடையே இருப்பது
ஒரு உறவல்ல
இலக்குகள் ஏதுமற்ற
ஒரு பந்தயம்..

ஒரு அன்னியனுக்குக் காட்டும்
வன்மம் மிகுந்த மரியாதை
ஒரு சட்டப்பூர்வ உரிமையாளனுக்கு
எதிராக ஒரு பொறுக்கியின் ரகசிய கலகம்...

தொண்டையில் நிரந்தரமாகத் தங்கிவிட்ட ஒரு மீன் முள்

சிநேகிதிகளின் கணவர்களுடனான
சிநேகங்களில்
நான் எனது பழக்கவழக்கங்களை
மாற்றிக் கொள்கிறேன்..

அவர்களது எல்லா அக்கறைகளையும்
எனது அக்கறைகளாக்கிக் கொள்கிறேன்..

சிநேகிதிகளுடன் பேச
ஒரே ஒரு விஷயம் போதுமானதாக இருந்தது...

அவர்களின் கணவர்களுடன் பேச
ஏராளமான கச்சாப் பொருள்கள் தேவைப்படுகின்றன.....

சிநேகிதிகளின் கணவர்களுடனான
சிநேகங்களில்
சிநேகிதிக்குப் பதில் சிநேகிதியின் குழந்தைகளை
நேசிக்கக் கற்றுக் கொண்டேன்...

எவ்வளவு குடிக்க வேண்டும்
ஜோக்குகளை எங்கே நிறுத்த வேண்டும்
நாற்காலிகள் எவ்வளவு தூரத்தில் அமையவேண்டும்
எந்தக் கணத்தில் வெளியேற வேண்டும்
என எல்லாவற்றையும் பழகிக் கொண்டேன்..

நான் குழப்பமடைவதெல்லாம்
சிநேகிதியை பெயர் சொல்லாமல்
எப்படி அழைப்பது என்று..

அல்லது பெயர்களை
வெறும் பெயர்களாக மட்டும்
எப்படி உச்சரிப்பது என்று..

ஒரு சிநேகிதியை
‘ சிஸ்டர்’ என்று அழைக்கும்
ஒரு ஆபாச கலாச்சாரத்திலிருந்து
எப்படித் தப்பிச் செல்வது என்று..//

இன்றைய தலைமுறை ...

இன்றைய தலைமுறை ...

பட்டம் பெற்றவன்
அதை விற்று பிழைத்த காலம்
சென்ற தடம் காணமல் போனது எப்படி?
விடை தேடி முடித்தேன்!
மென் பொருள் துறை தான் காரணம் என்று..
வியக்க ஏதும் இல்லை!

வேலை இன்றி திரியும்
இளைங்கர்களின் காதுகளில் என்பேசியும்
கைகளில் கணினியும்!

வேலை
இல்லாமல் இருபதற்கு ....
தன் உடல் நிலையை பணயம் வைப்பது மேல்....
என்று என்னும் சமுதாயம் ஆகிவிட்டது நம் தேசம்...

அப்படி என்ன ஒரு வேலையா?

கேட்கும் அனைவருக்கும்..
என் வினாவுக்கான விடை இதோ ...

கால் சென்டர்ஸ்!!!!

மழை:-

மழை பெண் :-
கோவம் எதற்கோ
வாட்டி வதிகிறாய் இப்படி..
சற்று குனிந்து பார்
உன் பிள்ளைகளின் நிலைமையை...
அதுவும் உன்ன உறங்க வழி தேடி
அலையும் மக்களை பார் ...

யார்மீது கோவமோ...
அவர்களை தண்டிப்பதை விடுத்து...
பாரபட்சம் பார்க்காமல்...
அனைவரையும் தண்டிப்பது..
எவ்விதத்தில் தகும் ....
நி அழுகிறாய் என்றால்..
என்கண்கள் குலமாகிகிறது...

சொல்லி விடு...
குறை என்னவென்று...
தீர்கும் வழி கிடைக்குமோ!
பார்கிறேன்...
ஆனால் நிறுத்திவிடு உன் கண்ணிரை....

எப்படி மறந்தேன்!

எப்படி மறந்தேன்!
இன் நாழி வரை வதம் செய்யும் மனதை
ஆற்றும் வழி தேடி தவிக்கிறேன்....
மன்னிப்பாயா மனமே.....
மூளை செல்கள் விடை அளிக்க மறுக்கின்றன!
மறுப்பது அல்லாது?
என்னை வதைக்கின்றன!
என் உயிர் அண்ணனின்
பிறந்த தினத்தை மறந்தமைக்கு....

மழை

மழை....
எனக்கே எனக்காக வந்தாய் எனில்...
உன்னுடன் விளையாட ஆசை தான்...
ஊருக்காக வந்துவிட்டு
நான் விளையாட வரவில்லை
என்று அழுகிறாய் என்றால்
நம்புவதற்கு நான் குழந்தை அல்ல..
நினைவில் வை...

Soar higher:

Today's world is too much competitive for people to survive which evermarket they belong to. Earth which constitutes of both men and womentogether termed as human beings are living widely on the earth. You maywonder why she is saying human beings, men & women and all as though youdon't know it...

There is a something high which I want to say here, only with men's theword world with millions and billions of human beings would not beattainable it would have stopped with "Adam' ultimately one and onlyman which constitutes this wonderful world or the vice-versa with "Eve".

Men who have achieved something till date would surely say there is awomen who is behind them which may be his mother , wife , daughter ,teacher , sister , lover or of any form in nature.. but I don't thinkvice-versa around over here because it may happen for very few %of womenwho are lucky in nature might say that.Again in vice versa also the world of women is surrounded by men of allforms started by her father, brother, husband and even more... but,someone can make a guess over here?

In olden days women are not supposed to come out of their houses evenfor studying purpose except for very few occasions mainly for their ownmarriage, her life would have ended up the four walls around her evenafter marriage, she was treated as no paid maid for lifetime for thefamily wherein she get's onto, still she might be living her life withgreatest satisfaction that's women nature of her kind..

The trend changed slightly , by providing basic education to the femaleborn in the family but again the domination of women by men was notchanged , probably that was changed only within her family men's and notthe society.

The next change happened luckily was providing good education i.e comingout to the society that to playing a major role where and when men'sruling in progress which clearly indicates something very hardly to allmen's in the world that we to can stand next to you when it comes tostudies, government both central and state governments, there was periodin all states and country women ruling the power comes into picture,there was sign introduced to all men that women can do anything andeverything equally to fly high in the society.But it doesn't ends up here.

There are lot more challenges to be takenup every individual where men are worried to take up and strengtheningour skills like enough courage and ability to accomplish the tasks takenwhich leads to the completeness of that specific goal in terms ofsuccess.

We women should not put our heads down in front any born men this worldfor any reason even though we are not provided with our justice fortreating men and women equally.Women are not born for crying, they born to win their life by livingwith power!So aim high to win and love the life we live.

Perfect Life

Every day we all start up with new dreams, hope etc , ultimately our aim is that “To live a perfect life “

Just wanna share something interesting about LIFE which I read few hours back under the title “My Life Would be Perfect If..." :

My thoughts on the above title with some points stolen from him J
we will fill up those blanks with something like “ My life would be perfect if I had a good job , a decent bungalow , latest car in the market , good looking spouse , enough money in the account , if I was one among the celebrity in this world etc etc… the perception differs from person to person which indicates where they live their day to day life in this society.

We all will think this saying that “My life would be perfect if.. “, when we have lost our hope in present why do this ??? (We have to certainly think over this), where gone the attitude of appreciation, thankfulness, forgiving & gratefulness…. I personally don’t agree upon this as though we are showing our gratitude to the pupils around us.. If we do so there won’t be question of whether my life is perfect…..

Just Look around you right now. Think of 10 things that you’re grateful for. Do you have a roof over your head and food to eat? I'm guessing the answer would be yes. Do you have at least a few good friends or close relationships? Then appreciate them too, right now. Keep going on, and practice being in the present and being grateful for what is here and now at least a couple times a day.You're also probably sitting there and thinking "yes but." Yes, but I want more money, a better relationship, more time to travel, to be thinner, happier or whatever. It's one of the great mysteries I'll never figure out. The minute you stop focusing on what you lack, start focusing on what you've already got, and add the "magic" ingredient of action, you actually begin to attract more of what you want. It's an amazing formula for really living your perfect life!

A simple formula may help you remember how to apply this principle:
The present
+ an attitude of gratitude
+ positive action
= my perfect life.
Try it for a day.
Each time when you start dreaming about how perfect our life would be if...come back to this moment, give thanks for what is, and do one thing to perfect what you have and who you are right now. There's a saying that "when the student is ready, the teacher appears." If you're ready to start perfecting your life, your teachers are all around you.
So what are you waiting for?

Life

I do go by my own wording's put together about life: “We need to achieve something in our life where we are born rather living the life by its own way it leads to”.
Life even though it sounds low it values high, each one born in this earth would live in this world to achieve something or the other which may be either good or bad ..It’s left to that person he / she chooses to achieve something. We all should dream high to aim high, words by Dr.Kalam for the youth’s in this century.

Life wil teach us the way to aim high as and when we agree that each and every moment of our life is precious and will teach us some value of the life which we live everyday every sec. We have our own value before looking for other’s values or following it in our daily life.
I can share few instances of mine with you; I am from a normal middle class family from a very small village, good education offered by my parents from a school where people of that period say one of the best schools in our town. This decision was done by my father to educate us in a best school since he didn’t have such an opportunity of learning. since he was bought up by himself without his parents from his small age where no one to help him out in continuing his studies bcoz their parents where no more…. This was there in his heart all the way down his life to educate his children in a best way where no one had done it in our village. My father learnt lots of lessons about life when he was just 12. I couldn’t imagine even now how he would have struggled hard to come up in his life….

My grandma who has done a great sacrifice giving her daughter ( i.e my mother ) to my father in those days even though he was earning so less to run a family… my parents with all their efforts put together bought us i.e my elder brother and younger sister and me without knowing what is happening in our family financially… what all we know by that time was our parents love, good education , food, clothing and shelter which we leads all three of us to aim high in our studies which ultimately makes our parents dream true slowly day by day….

The day comes when my brother passed out his 12 th with good scores and seated in good college, here comes the point wherein my brother know actual financial situation running over in our family, followed by completing my 10th stepped into a government school to continue my higher studies leaving my brother in college wherein I came to know that my father was hurt within his heart as he himself had spoiled my studies by shifting the school. From there I struggled hard to achieve good results in my higher sec in order to make my father happy ,that he didn’t do anything wrong , yes I did it from my end but it took 2 yrs for me to do that. That was the period where my father build our own small house which was is dream for long years and at last we are successful stepping into our new home.

Even though my father struggled hard there were no problem for my mother for running the family bcoz he provided her all latest facilities since 1990’s like TV, fridge, phone, gas and many more things provided to her as she was the first person in our village to use that. I don’t have seen any other person in my life till today as my mother, she stands special for all three of us for her love , affection & care shown towards us and above all for her calmness and smiling face . I have never seen her scolding anyone by harsh words in this 24 years of my life time with her… Those days she used to suffer lot for fetching water for our economical use, Even though there were maids for helping her to do that. We used to take water for some days, which made my father to drill ground for getting bore water. After few times of continuous effort we succeeded in getting water in our own house. There are many more instances to state but let me stop here…

Ultimate aim of our three is to make our parents dream to come true and we all were working hard for achieve it… in the meanwhile my sister completed her education both 10th and 12th with good marks where no one in our village has crossed that till today even later there won’t be anyone in future also is my father’s thought (bcoz all children are precious to their parents  ).

My parents short term goal becomes true over here and they started working about our future goals by providing us our 2nd level education as my brother stepped into B.tech where my father needs to push me into b.tech and later skipped that and stepped into B.sc and my sister who couldn’t step into BITS stepped on to her B.tech in one of the famous institute if not BITS. We left one of our goal failed at that point in time that no one form us would step in to BITS.

Among us my sister was so lucky wherein my brother settled down in a good IT firm of India as she completed her studies and her life was too smooth… me after completing my B.sc looking for my higher studies and stepped into a college for my M.CA. Overall my aim was to become a teacher somehow washed away and tried concentrating on my studies.
Then there was an opportunity from the firm where my brother was working, that I can work for that company and happiest part of that job is that I would be eligible for doing a degree from BITS. I accepted that job only bcoz of making my father’s dream true even though there is hard bond of 4 years and I can work along with my brother.
Best part of all is been done by our brother who struggled every day in his life and today he is in a good position where everyone around him is willing to follow him choosing his path. I personally a well wisher and die-heart follower of my brother who is always my role model & who leads my life with all his hard work and good thoughts and even service provided by him towards society. I always feel proud of my brother and sister.

My father and my mother wil always used to say that me and my sister are blessed by god for getting a brother like him and we both wil strongly agree upon that because there is no controversy on that…even they use to say that they are blessed to get children like us. But the fact is we were lucky enough in this world to be blessed them as our parents.. I wish its to be the same for the following generations to come…

At last today is the day that my father’s long term goal is also been satisfied as my sister too has joined a good organization and started working…. We really proud of ourselves that all 3 worked hard and harder in our life for making my parents dreams true…

Part 2:

Hi all,
I am continuing back with good news that my uncle is recovered back from his surgery and now in bed rest for few months. Hopefully he will walk normally as beforeJ
Our happiness continues day on day. . there is no way for sadness within us… still there were few misunderstandings which would ever last for few mins and all will be back to normal as before and start enjoying… since we were staying in ground floor with three houses … one owns by our dear scientist uncle and the other by a couples with one sweet & cute little child Evangeline of 2 years old. Initial days, when we were very new to that place, she won’t even look into our faces or just a “Hi” even. Then when the days went on she started slowly moving us by playing some small games and slowly she got attracted towards all of us in one way or the other. The daily routine for us is that, either one or the other should play with her until she goes to bed…. If not she won’t have her dinner without playing with us…. We all really don’t know how the bonding happened between her and we end with a good relationship with that family which would & will last forever…

She feels very lonely over there since we have left from that house. We one or the other will go once in a while as family friend to meet them... Aunty still welcomes us warmly J spending time with her makes us feel happy instead… I am really wondering how this would have happened. As all alone came to Chennai few years back with only few known familiar faces in this big city... but if I look back I can see there are families for me in this Singara Chennai .I am proud to day that I am not all alone… there are some one back behind us as a well wisher for helping me and guiding me….
Let me stop my happiest moments over here and continue with the worst part of the events happened in that tenure of 8 months…
Anything and everything which is been in taken on higher node will lead to something worst and bad… all would have come across an old and golden proverb in Tamil (அளவுக்கு மீறினால் அமுதமும் நஞ்சு)…. Same happened too much of joy end’s to an bitter amount of worries and sadness which thought us a great amount of knowledge and awareness about things before we do it again..
Still more to be continued….

Really Inspirational...

Once, when he was a young boy, Gandhi stole a bit of gold out of his brother's armlet to clear a small debt (not his own) of about twenty-five rupees. But the act became more than he could bear. The crime bore heavy on his heart and he kept thinking about it.

He made up his mind never to steal again. He also wanted to confess the crime to his father. But he didn't have the guts to do so. Gandhi was worried more about the pain that he would cause his father. After a lot of thought, Gandhi decided that the risk should be taken. He wrote out the confession on a slip of paper and handed it to his father. In the note he not only confessed his guilt, but also asked to be punished for it.

With trembling hands, Gandhi handed the confession to his father who was then suffering from a fistula and was confined to bed. Gandhi sat opposite his father on the small wooden plank that served as his father's bed. As he read the note, tears trickled down his father's cheeks, wetting the paper. For a moment he closed his eyes in thought and then tore up the note. He had sat up to read it. He again lay down. Mohandas also started crying. He could see the pain his father was going through.

About the incident Gandhi said later, "Those pearl-drops of love cleansed my heart, and washed my sin away... This was, for me, an object-lesson in Ahimsa (non-violence). Then I could read in it nothing more than a father's love, but today I know that it was pure Ahimsa. When such Ahimsa becomes all-embracing it transforms everything it touches. There is no limit to its power." - Mahatma Gandhi

If someone did – Its an experiment. If we took the initiative – Its a true experiment. Here is an example for the later part the true experiment. A circumstance has been developed for the students to develop their truth experiment at Women Government Higher Secondary School located in Thiruppur District, Uthukuli.

When we stepped inside the stationery shop residing inside the school premises, few students are choosing their needed stationery material from there. You may ask what is the astonishing thing here is? The shop doesn't have any vendors, no supervisors and things are not locked. Amazing right! Students can pick their needed stationery items like books, scales, pencils… etc from there and pay the equivalent price in the price box and if they pay additional then they can take their balance amount from the price box. As the price box will remain opened.

This first and foremost formulated shop in TamilNadu is named as 'Sathya Sothanai Angadi'. This idea of this shop has been created for the young students residing in the same locality jointly with the 'Anbu Aarakatalai'.

Speak only the truth, Don't steal, Don't hurt, Live in morality, No ill talking are the key slogans that should be nourished in the student's mind from their infant. "We have taken this chance to guide the student with these moral values." Says Geetha - Anbu Aarakatalai's incharge.

"We thought of doing an innovative thing in remembrance of the students died in Kumbakonnam fire accident. The outcome of our initiative is 'Sathya Sothanai Angadi' started 15th August 2007. The deeds are fully for the students and to extol the student's good quality. Our expectations, confidence, missions, actions are all around the students." Says S.Ramakrishnan – One of the Sathya Sothanai Angadi's Managers. He answered our few questions.

"Sathya Sothanai Angadi" – What does it mean?
Love, grace, morality are not to be taught to the children. These characters will dwell in them naturally. So we have given them a field to motivate their nature and to build their ethics in the form of 'Sathya Sothanai Angadi'. Two friends of mine, working as IAS in Andhra Pradesh formulates the identical type of shop in Shreekaakgulam – Schools for gipsys. We have done the same type in their advice.

What were the public's view / opinion about this?
Many people said the items in the shop will get stolen. But nothing happened like that. Instead, students got pride in their morality and ethics behaviours.

Why in choosing the Government School?
Government student's character, managing skills and morality are judged incorrectly by the outsiders. To remove this bottom line we have brought this into the Government Schools. The need materials for the students are brought in lump-some. The price will be same as that of MRP and lesser than the outside market. The price of each item will be marked on them. So they can buy the items and pay themselves. The price box remains open as usually.

How about student's reaction?
Students are totally got surprised on the first day. They even haven’t entered the shop. Later day, they themselves stared to buy the items and pay for it. The money will be used for the school improvement. School's Head Master gave us the full fledge support to this shop.

Do you believe that this will glow brighter?
Each and every plan has own ups and downs. Government school students are fantastic. We usually don't trust in their truthness and ethic. But as of now no items got stolen from the shop. We did a proper counselling to the students about the shop's mission and vision. We have the confidence that the student won't fail us in any form.

How about taking and implementing this idea in other schools?
We have just started this. If the shop ran successfully for long time with morality and ethic then we will start practicing the shop in other schools. So the implementation of this idea with other schools completely depends on this student's hand.

Words from N.Karuppaswamy – Head Master
"'Anbu Aarakatalai' has taken initiative in planting and maintaining the trees inside school premises, teaching fine arts for our school students. They are helping each and every individual in this school."

Inspired Incident!!!
"One day in that shop, a student bought a pen for Rs. 10. She dropped her Rs. 20 inside the price box. Then she directly she came to me and asked for the balance. We declined her request and asked her to take the balance amount from the price box itself. The main aim of this shop is to experiment your truthness. We got surprised about her ethics. Each and every child will be having this. "

"Gain is not the vital thing in this. We sell the stationery item as of the bought price. Till date the bought amount and the sold amount are tallied and balance. The sales reached Rs. 2000 on the first day itself. To verify the items and money we have represented four students." Says N.Karuppaswamy – Head Master of the school.

This truth battle among the youth will be certainly a best example for others. The whole success factor is in the hands of the students. Hats off.

Courtesy: Dinamani – Sunday Kondattam
Essay: "Sathya Sothanai Angadi"
Author: Raghunathan
Published On: 21st June 2009

My Expereince in our small apartment!

H75,
G1, Mullai apartments,
Thiruvalluvar nagar,
Thiruvanmiyur, Chennai -41.
This was my address few days back.. but gratefully( unfortunately) not now...

At last that was our last day in the flats where I and my friends lived together for past 8 months. All our happiness in that home has been ended up... That was a real joy and entertainment of 8 months where in we enjoyed each and every day by sharing our joys, worries, smile, laughter and so on...

I quickly remember the saying which was 100% true... “Share your happiness it would double your happiness and the same way if share our worries its divides by two"...
Altogether our life in that is flats ended up as a dream which ended abruptly as some session timed out... this is something like when something happen on our path we walk.

Two things can happen we would notice the obstacle and by pass it without being hit by it which is sounds good. The other part of it is really drastic, without noticing we are hurt by the obstacle.
The latter part of the above happened when I shifted to new apartment along with my friends without even looking for the obstacle on my path which is going to play around my life a major role which really going to teach me some good lessons in life to go on after some dreadful days...
Without knowing of all sought of problems which are marching towards us by the land lady we are enjoying each and every day to a greater extent.
There were many well wishers friends we are able to form within a short span of period over some months... really un-imaginable :)

At the most important experience we were enjoying is the dishes that we used to prepare. Since one among us was about to get married and she has never even been into the kitchen for the years she lived..... When she enters the kitchen for cooking really makes our life miserable... she learnt slowly how to cook by experimenting on us as though we are some specimens over there in any of the bio-logy labs.

We all are altogether with her so we are undergoing the experiments but one of our friends who stay in the same apartment to undergoes the same kind of operations at least 4 days per week...
He himself has come to a conclusion if these girls will stay for some more years or even some months will for sure kill him by their food slowly as slow poison…. At the most we all were very safe and secured under his guidance that stood behind us as a well wisher, friend, sweet enemy and so on… We all really felt bad, when one fine day he decided to shift his room by no other means… but life is circle which revolves around as earth without standing at one position.. If we human beings are going to stand idle then that was the last day we are in this beautiful world… but still he stands as supporter where ever he goes… that’s our friend J but one way he is happy that he won’t be undergoing any kind of operations (Our food ).

I jus wanna put few lines about my sweet uncle… My uncle( I can use “MY” because he shows us so much love and care as though we were his own daughters )… My uncle who is a scientist, worked hard & hard in his life to succeed for years and years… After his retirement from a well known college as a department HOD he has sacrificed his life for research in science and medicine…

He wants us to be in home on time, take food on time and even more.. We never felt that we are away from our home and family… A nice genuine human being in this world who shows love and affection for those peoples who care for him… yes we all care for him because he is suffering with lots and lots of illness which he doesn’t care that is major….. He is undergoing his 3 rd major surgery over his leg... My god, please help my uncle so that he will get well soon and walk with us as usual……

Even though I said we have experienced lots of problems still we have gained few more friends and relatives over there in our tenure of 8 months in that apartment…

Still to be continued....

The world is our mirror!!!

The good you find in others, is in you too.
The faults you find in others are your faults as well.
After all, to recognize something you must know it.
The possibilities you see in others, are possible for you as well.

The beauty you see around you is your beauty.
The world around you is a reflection, a mirror showing you the person you are.
To change your world, you must change yourself.
To blame and complain will only make matters worse.

Whatever you care about, is your responsibility.
What you see in others shows you yourself.
See the best in others, and you will be your best.
Give to others, and you give to yourself.

Appreciate beauty, and you will be beautiful.
Admire creativity, and you will be creative.Love, and you will be loved.
Seek to understand, and you will be understood.
Listen, and your voice will be heard. Teach, and you will learn.

Here comes the next!!!

Marriage a mutual bonding with her husband makes her feel happy but none of us will think of her real feeling which was hidden under heart is never remembered by anyone in this world except God.

Here comes the part II:
Let me share it in some different angles would society feel and more over the crisis of a man whom she believes a Nuptial Knot r a wedding ring before our almighty or in a register office and what so ever way it may be......

In earlier days we all would have been aware how a marriage happens. Its something like the family of bride will provide dowry to the bridegroom family in order to get her married to their son. But anyway that’s again happens without a mutual discussion with either bride or bride groom.....

The trend started changing a little but vice versa of the above said one that is Bridegroom -> Bride but the later part of the above said one remained the same.

Still its getting changed which is quite un natural in our culture but still...... where in both bride and bride groom knows each other in all aspects such as understanding , love, affection, care etc... which the society names it in one single word termed as "LOVE" which is been partly accepted in some family but voluntarily rejected in many family stating reasons like caste, status, education, family culture, tradition and so on which has no ending.....
The former case would be accepting the children’s love as though they are loving their children’s rather than dowry for the physical appearance and getting dowry from the family as much they can...

The later case would be they would be parted and settled in with men or women with he or she will spend their remaining life span as the life of Jesus Christ with thorns in his heart for not being truthful the married partner.

Very worst case in the later part would be sharing the moments of his or her past love to their partner whom their parents chooses will feel that my husband or my wife is very open to me on sharing all the thoughts and feeling without hiding anything as such including the past life which would dreadfully leads to very drastic life where in they are unaware b4 sharing would be the sarcastic word "SUSPECT" which ends up their life miserable.

Is this comes to an end? No!!!!!!!!!

Not at all!
Still lot more on this space.. Watch out here.........